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	<title>Doodaddy &#187; stay-at-home guilt</title>
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	<description>A San Francisco stay-at-home dad getting the hang of things.</description>
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		<title>How to get promoted to &#8220;stay at home dad supervisor&#8221;</title>
		<link>http://doodaddy.net/2010/04/14/how-to-get-promoted-to-stay-at-home-dad-supervisor/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Apr 2010 11:05:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I never lie about my work. Except to my daughter. Some dads do stretch the truth about their job titles, I&#8217;ve noticed. Either they&#8217;re stay-at-home dads who still pretend to be working &#8212; heard as &#8220;I&#8217;m doing some consulting&#8221; &#8212; or they&#8217;re mostly-working dads who take a day off and think they rate the SAHD [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Resurfacing</title>
		<link>http://doodaddy.net/2009/03/04/resurfacing/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Mar 2009 23:27:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Bath time means I catch up on my e-mail. I’m about four weeks behind. My life has again undergone one of those major changes that makes you re-sort every priority. And all I can think about is the laundry. Becoming a stay-at-home dad to Boo three years ago was major, sure, but for all that, [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>9</slash:comments>
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		<title>The night before</title>
		<link>http://doodaddy.net/2008/11/12/the-night-before/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Nov 2008 08:29:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>doodaddy</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Our garage is constipated with the junk of former jobs and bygone hobbies, and I spent the day &#8212; this unique day before I change from father of one to father of two &#8212; carting boxes of useless miscellania from one end of the pile to another. And hardly any time with my only child, [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Friends-in-law: What are your kids&#8217; friends&#8217; parents?</title>
		<link>http://doodaddy.net/2008/06/11/friends-in-law-what-are-your-kids-friends-parents/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Jun 2008 13:42:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I heard a roar at the zoo today. Given recent history, it made me a little nervous, but it turns out that it was just towheaded, three-something G— shrieking joyfully at us as he emerged from around a corner, elated at the accidental encounter. G—&#8217;s nanny trailed with baby sister in a stroller. She and [...]]]></description>
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		<title>I love aquariums.</title>
		<link>http://doodaddy.net/2008/06/10/i-love-aquariums/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Jun 2008 01:40:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[And this is why: I can&#8217;t believe this is my job.]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>9</slash:comments>
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		<title>Reward: Lost Self-Esteem</title>
		<link>http://doodaddy.net/2008/04/21/reward-lost-self-esteem/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Apr 2008 00:47:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>doodaddy</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Following the leader Having three kids together with three adults is about three times easier than a one-on-one parent-to-child ratio. (To say nothing of one adult to two or more kids &#8212; I don&#8217;t know how you manage.) We went to the zoo today with Emmeline and Buddy Boy and I felt relaxed as could [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>4</slash:comments>
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		<title>Doodaddy is a Closet Momblocker</title>
		<link>http://doodaddy.net/2007/10/18/doodaddy-is-a-closet-momblocker/</link>
		<comments>http://doodaddy.net/2007/10/18/doodaddy-is-a-closet-momblocker/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Oct 2007 23:10:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>doodaddy</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hey, all! I posted over at GNM Parents today about how frequently I am visited by the &#8220;momblocking&#8221; urge, a term that&#8217;s been used by many to describe the male version of &#8220;gatekeeper moms&#8221; (check out Amy Sohn writing in New York magazine, for example). A momblocker, you see, is a dad, whether stay-at-home or [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Ouch! The Vicious Cycle of a Parent&#8217;s Confidence Crisis</title>
		<link>http://doodaddy.net/2007/09/27/ouch-the-vicious-cycle-of-a-parents-confidence-crisis/</link>
		<comments>http://doodaddy.net/2007/09/27/ouch-the-vicious-cycle-of-a-parents-confidence-crisis/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Sep 2007 04:39:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>doodaddy</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Working Mom is behind the door on my right, trying to put Boobaby down to sleep. Boo is fighting. She&#8217;s been overstimulated all evening, and my wife hasn&#8217;t felt like she&#8217;s done the best job bringing her down. Working Mom gets worked up a lot about her mothering skills. Upset that she&#8217;s not doing a [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>3</slash:comments>
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		<title>Downplaying and&#8230; I dunno, &quot;Up-playing?&quot;</title>
		<link>http://doodaddy.net/2007/08/30/downplaying-and-i-dunno-up-playing/</link>
		<comments>http://doodaddy.net/2007/08/30/downplaying-and-i-dunno-up-playing/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 30 Aug 2007 23:13:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>doodaddy</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I hugged Park Buddy today. It wasn&#8217;t what you&#8217;re thinking &#8212; there&#8217;s none of that, thank you, despite the opinions of a couple of sanctimommies at the playground. No, we just both needed a little reassurance today that even though Buddy Boy is going off to school next week, Buddy and I will still be [...]]]></description>
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		<slash:comments>6</slash:comments>
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		<title>I&#8217;m Fighting Our Stuff. It&#8217;s Winning.</title>
		<link>http://doodaddy.net/2007/08/21/im-fighting-our-stuff-its-winning/</link>
		<comments>http://doodaddy.net/2007/08/21/im-fighting-our-stuff-its-winning/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Aug 2007 23:55:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>doodaddy</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Things always end up where they don&#8217;t belong, so I thought of this great system for containing the spread of stuff: Baskets. When Boobaby takes off her socks, transplants a toy, or adopts an empty plastic bowl in the living room, I toss it into the &#8220;back of the house&#8221; basket. There&#8217;s also a &#8220;front [...]]]></description>
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